It took me years to understand that no matter how prophetic we are, or how much we know about the Word of God, or even if God visits us in dreams and visions, when we lack the love of God in our ministries or spiritual gifts as we serve others, there is no power or demonstration released from God, because without faith, hope and love people aren't transformed into the image Christ desires them to be in.
We must keep examining our hearts for the love factor, dealing with our own wounds and hurt within ourselves, which affects our relationship with the Lord, yet also for the people we serve, starting with our families. Love confronts, affirms, comforts, corrects and exposés at times, but in the end it leads us to a more defined image of who Christ as we become healed so we can walk in love. Let us strive, even when we make mistakes to walk in Gods love towards ourselves and others, which is the greatest example we can display as believers.
Corinthians 13:4-8 ESV